Comments on: Pierre-Henri Cade [1966-2003]

By: EXTREME Blogger Gus Greeper » Blog Archive » When Self Medicating Goes Too Far

Wed, 05 Mar 2008 00:59:20 +0000

[…] PH died I think I mentioned that one of the phases that I went through that none of the other people I went […]

By: TEAMONE

TEAMONE — Wed, 13 Feb 2008 07:51:26 +0000

I knew PH, worked with him, trained with him, was getting to know him. I still have a note that he left on my old car back in 2002, when we would do laps around stanley park and everyelse. It was the time before the speedbump before the harry-jerome statue. Your initials go onto all of my bikes. and you’d not only love Armstrong for 7 Tours, but the dura-ace 9’s that evolved into tens - and much more. PH, I love you man. Bastard. London. For you.

By: Freakazojd

Freakazojd — Tue, 12 Feb 2008 19:44:21 +0000

This is exactly the kind of letter I would love to be able to write to a boyfriend who died almost 15 years ago. God, 15 years…it’s like a slap in the face how quickly that time has flown and how much more I could have done with it, like write such a wonderful letter when the memories were more fresh in my mind, for one. I’m glad that you did this now. It’s beautiful.

By: Nocturnal

Nocturnal — Wed, 06 Feb 2008 08:05:52 +0000

Such a good looking guy, what a fucking shame.

Bottom line Corrina, the *only* person you can control is *Yourself*.

I find solace knowing that in these situations.

All the best.

Cheers

By: TheFunkyBee

TheFunkyBee — Wed, 06 Feb 2008 03:37:58 +0000

Don’t regret the time that you didn’t get to spend together. Appreciate and thank god for the time you did have. You’ll never be able to move on (and by that I don’t mean forget - I mean in a good way) if you have regrets. No matter when it was, no matter how much time you had together, you will always want one more day, one more hour, one more second. It’s human nature and it’s expected…I’m so sad for your loss, no matter when it was. It still hurts. I do hate how selfish a person who commits suicide is. I know it’s a disease and it impairs your rational thinking but it still makes me so angry and my stomach turn…I guess sometimes it’s hard to see how many people really love you.

By: Chick

Chick — Tue, 05 Feb 2008 13:42:21 +0000

What a lovely post about what seemed like a gentle soul.

I know the ‘one more day’ thought so well…it’s an ache that in my experience will never go away…but really…would you want it to?

I’m sorry for your loss…but happy because he was in your life for a while.